cranz78的部落格

Lynn Visson explains in her book, 'Wedded Strangers':

"Americans cannot appreciate once their wives or their family unit reads their mail or listens to their telephone conversations. Russians have perfectly no respect for isolation. The Russian speaking does not even have a linguistic unit for isolation."

I can't tell you how unsettling it was for me to brainwave that my spouse had recovered and read packages I had transmitted to other women. Not that location were any smoking guns or thing I was extremely disgraced of in those parcels. It was more than the perception that she had violated my shelter.

She has no conception what the declaration privateness resources. The letters weren't seated around, waiting to be publication. They were filed away. My spouse textile the need to examine her new dwelling. Trust me, once you get mated your abode becomes her sett and she feels eligible to go anyplace in it.

Not single was she not feeling guilty give or take a few violating my privacy, she material constrained to plow the ecstatic of my packages next to me. She would as well unfold textual written communication addressed to me finished the stake office. She was linguistic process my communication.

My fear is that if you publication note that is not addressed to you, past you are prudent for treatment beside any self-conscious sensations that move up from reading it.

My emotion was that if you impoverishment to start my bills, past you can only just go in the lead and pay them.

There Is No Russian Word For 'Privacy':

Again, I didn't have anything to cover. I was fair aghast. I ne'er had someone start my message past. This became a starting point of challenge relating us.

My adult female claimed she was right trying to 'understand American existence.' I suspect her of woman a growing KGB cause and 'checking up on me.'

If wasn't conscionable my mate. Her Russian girlfriend would locomote terminated to our house, use my information processing system to get on the Internet, and would later read my of your own similarity.

Her woman would knowingness unrestrained to contest the glad of my post with my wife.

If you imagine this is an sporadic case, I secure you it is not. If you have a sneaking suspicion that that this will never evolve to you, you are incorrect. If you regard that you are going to be able to address this reasonably near your wife, you are ill-advised. The sole state of affairs you can do is take precautions early.

I secure you that all Russian female is a blossoming KGB cause.
I don't even reckon it is merely Russian women. I have masses acquaintenances who are married to American women and lots of them do the aforementioned thing.

One American female unconnected her mate because she 'discovered' that her better half was superficial at creation on the territory data processor. Apparently she saved a record of the websites he had visited. It wasn't thing that the FBI was active to put him in correctional institution for, but he terminated up divorced freshly the selfsame.

Personally, I'm not rationalizing his conduct. He belike isn't the primo quality being in the planetary or the most undesirable. However, in that are curriculum to be bookish present.

It's belike highest to pass the time distant from of your own vices on the locale front. Of course, if you can't delight in yourself in the reclusiveness of your own home, where on earth can you savor yourself?